Nicholas says:
I'm 19 and in college. My ex recently came back like two months ago and
she wants us to be together again because last time we broke up because I
thought she and I could do better (two years back.) anyways, I was
told when you truly love someone you love everything about them
including their flaws.. But the thing is her flaws disturb me. At the
same time I don't think I can do better. I've had girls talk about
me and such but my social skills are below zero. So should I just try
to build up my confidence and social skills and speak to new people or
should I just accept her for who she is and just go with it.
Not unusual for a 19 year old, you have self-esteem issues and are
worried that this girl is the best you're going to get. To quote
Madonna's song Respect Yourself - "Second best is never enough, you'll
do much better baby on your own!" This is good advice. There is someone
for everyone. Hold out for her, whoever and whenever she turns out to be
and don't go with someone who you're not completely comfortable with.
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