I’m 19, my GF is 19, and we’re 6 years in. We live together as well.
Even after all these years she’s very loving, sweet, and downright
playful. I’m not a misogynist or a chauvinist( if I were how could I
keep a GF for 6 years). I like to think of myself as a respectful guy
and I am. Anyway, last night she decided to play “ What do you like
about your boyfriend/girlfriend. When my joke went awry.
Her: Your smile
Me: Your eyes
Her: Sensitivity
Me: Your legs
Her: Big heart
Me: Pouty soft lips
Her: tenderness
Me: Your impressive rack * laughs *
Her: excuse me?
Me: What can I say? Your boobs are wonderful
Her: You’re unbelievably shallow. I have more than just a body you know. I have a brain. Everything you said was about my body
Me: Sorry if I hurt your feelings
Her: I’m not forgetting this just because you’re sorry. Tonight you can sleep at the zoo with the other mindless apes
Me: I’m really sorry. If it helps, say something about me.
Her: No, It’s rude and I don’t like hurting people’s feelings like you do.
Me: Sweetie, I…
Her: Leave me alone
She locked herself in her room crying and hasn’t spoken to me. Best way to apologize?
You were being a typical guy! However you need to realize that most
girls want to be appreciated for things other than their wibbly-wobbly
bits.
It doesn't sound like you like her just because she is physically
attractive, and it's these other things she wants to hear. Strong
relationships stay together because each one finds qualities in the
other they deeply respect and admire. My wife for example is
phenomenally loving and patient with me, and she never bears a grudge
about my past behaviour. These are the things I compliment her with.
A few non-physical compliments and a bunch of flowers will hopefully do
the trick. By the way my wife has fabulous **** too, but she knows that I
don't just love her for those.
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