John says:
First off, no I'm not materialistic. So I've been with this girl for
about three months. She was also the person I took to prom. Even on
prom, I saw the only person at the prom that didn't receive the male
version of a corsage. So far I've taking her shopping a couple of times
and I've taken her place multiple times. I've spent about 500 dollars on
her (we're only 18) compared to her 40 or below, which she paid for
food or movie tickets. However, she took her friend out shopping and to
the movies on multiple occasions.
She's made me promises but failed to
deliver. In the end, I just want a 50/50 relationship when it comes to
spending as well. She always talks about how she'll pay for her friend
to go do this and that, but never does this for me. I know three months
is not long, but it's long enough to recieve SOMETHING, even a card or
something homemade. It's the thought that counts.
She has tons of stuff I
have bought her. I even have her a tv cause she didn't have one. She
can make a little wardrobe with the stuff I've bought her. I believe to
not fair and I'm not taking her anywhere or buying her anything else.
She's a sweet girl, we both have plans for the future looks, we both
have jobs, so as a person, she's cool. But she always blows her money on
everything but me. Then im the one paying for all our get-togethers. I
hate feeling used and abused.I have money, but I work hard for it.I can
buy my own stuff, But again, it's the thought that counts.
You seem to be wanting confirmation for what you already know - that
you're being taken for a ride. I'm happy to give you that confirmation.
You're not imagining it - you ARE being exploited. Dump her right now,
and put it down to experience. Next time you're being exploited, don't
leave it so long before acting.
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