Laura says:
My best friend is close friends with my boyfriend and the other day she
went to his house to study but they ended up just watching a movie, my
favourite movie. It hurt my feelings because they never even told me
that they were going to do that. They meet up alone sometimes and make
plans with eachother, but I just feel jealous because I feel like that
should be me. Just by the way she has a boyfriend but doesnt have a very
good relationship with him. They talk and text all the time and Im
usually fine with it but it just really bugged me this time. I feel
silly bringing it up because she is my best friend and they didnt do
anything. Its not that I dont want him to have any friends that are
girls, I just dont think that its appropriate for them to do that
without even telling me or my best friends boyfriend who doesnt even
know about it. A while ago when I wasn't around they also went to the
movies alone together.
What should I do? Do you think I'm being paranoid?
Thanks for the help :)
You're not imagining it - this isn't right. If he is keeping his
meetings with her from you, they are spending time alone together and
her own relationship is rocky, anyone would be suspicious. And you don't
actually know if they did anything or not. I think expecting you to
accept all this is too big an ask. Never trust a man who wants to be
alone with another woman and wants you to accept it. I fear that your
best friend may put her own feelings before any loyalty to you.
I'm afraid that this is not going to end well whatever you decide. The
bravest and best thing to do is issue an ultimatum - this stops or
they're both "fired". To be honest I would go further than this and dump
the pair of them right now. The foundation of any relationship is
trust, and you cannot trust either of these two.
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