Olivia says:
For 3 months, Ive been talking to this guy and we went on a few dates.
While texting he uses lots of winky faces and :-* he'll ask about my day
and how I'm doing - he's the first to initiate texts.
During our dates we have heavy make out sessions and sometimes dry hump
but hasnt gone further. (I was blunt with him and asked if he had a
condom but he didnt so we said next time we will) On dates he's touchy
like holds my hand and etc but hasnt asked me to be his gf so its kinda
confusing what we are. he's complimented me on my confidence and we have
a teasing kinda relationship but realize that he sometimes likes other
girls pictures on ig/fb
We used to text each other every day but now its only a few times a week..what do you think is he into me or not?
Just wanted another opinion :)
If you're serious about wanting a relationship with this guy you need to
up your terms. It seems to be you were fully prepared to have sex and
expect no commitment. If a casual encounter is what you want, that's
fine but if it's a relationship, you need to use that confidence of
yours to get a little respect. That means you only have sex with a
committed boyfriend, loyal to you alone.
Even guys who are happily committed like "window shopping" - which is
harmless enough so long as his hands stay by his side and penis stays in
pants (or in his own hand) when you're not around. However this is an aside on the nature of
men in general.
Show some self-respect, sister! If he doesn't ask you out, or you're not
prepared to ask HIM out, wait for a guy that has the courage and
commitment to want to be yours alone.
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