James says:
I'm 17 and there is this girl in one of my lessons, we had barely spoke
before last week but she started talking to me for no reason. Today she
was sat talking with a group of her friends but when I walked in the
class and sat on a different table she came and sat with me and started
talking to me. Our class had an exam today and I decided to walk down
early and she walked down with me even though her friends were still in
the class. We were sat talking for quite a while, just the two of us
even though she had friends at the other end of the corridor, before the
exam started. After the exam had finished she was talking to her
friends but when I walked out of the hall she came to talk to me. Does
this sounds like she likes me or is she just being friendly?
The reason I am asking is because I have never had a girlfriend before and I like her but I am unsure if she likes me.
The next time I will see her will be in 2 weeks. Will this be too long
to wait or could I still have a chance? Have I blown any chance or will
it be ok to wait 2 weeks?
You'll find out soon enough. Success in dating requires two important
qualities - courage and persistence. What holds guys back is the fear of
rejection. Rather than face the risk, they don't do anything at all.
When you see her again, tell her how lovely she is and you'd be honoured
if she went on a date with you. Yes she might say no or even worse
leave you hanging with a "maybe" (take that as a no) and you will feel
bad, but you would feel worse being a coward.
Keep asking girls long enough, you'll learn to do it better by
experience, but remember everyone is a little different. Believe me I
know all about failure in many fields, but you know what? - I'm no
longer afraid of it. I either succeed or I learn something. Hang on in
there and make your move in two weeks.
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