punkt says:
Me and my ex started seeing each other again because he wanted me to. He
still had feelings left and I had some too. Anyways, we've been seeing
each other for a month now and a week ago I started to notice that he
was cold and acted weird with me. Like whenever I said "I love you" he
figured out a way to change the subject so he wouldn't have to say it
back. I talked to him about this and asked what was wrong he said
nothing, I asked him several times for like 2 weeks and he said no.
Until from nowhere he said that he lost his feelings for me >3 weeks
ago< and didn't want to tell me. I asked him why he didn't tell me
because if he had told me earlier I wouldn't have been so in love again
and I would take it easier but he said he didn't have the guts. Then he
said he want to try again because he loves me and he wants to try to get
his feelings back by spending time with me.
I'm very in love so I said okay, and now ive been trying to hang out
with him but he stills acts cold and weird. Like he never picks up the
phone cause he doesn't want to talk cause he is tired, he is always to
tired to go out and see me, and when we speak im the only one holding
the conversation up.
I dont know what to do, ive talked to him about this that its hard for
me to try with someone who even cant reply when I say I miss him. Its
like he wants to try but he doesn't want to hang out with me or talk to
me that much.. I dont know what to do im sick of this. But I love him.
Also we have a lot of problems because he never tells me when he feels
something is wrong and when we fight he never want to solve anything
cause he doesn't want to talk. What should I do? should i just tell him
to tell me when he is ready to try again for real or what? I dont want
to be the one fighting for him when he doesn't try at all..
Here is the reality - love takes two. Your love is unrequited, and he
isn't strong enough to push you away, so you must be the strong one
instead. He'll never be able to give you something he just hasn't got.
You're fighting for a love that's long dead, and I think you know this
already, and you just needed someone to tell you obvious.
So I'm telling you - walk away sweetheart, and save up all your lovin' for someone who's lovin' you!
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