Brock says:
Ok my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. She is in
Choir and they have "choir children" and "choir parents" and she has a
"choir son" who is a year younger than us. They constantly hug each
other whenever they see each other and always tell each other they love
each other. She doesn't ever hug me like she does to him and doesn't
tell me she loves me in public like that either. I get really jealous
when I see that and I don't know if this is normal or something?? He
also has a girlfriend and I know she doesnt love him like that, but she
still hugs him and says she loves him a whole lot more than she does to
me. What should I do? I live in California
What kind of bizarre choir is this?! It sounds like a well-meaning but
very misguided way of doing things. If it was like adults looking after
children, then I could understand it, but not when one "parent" is
scarcely more mature than the "child".
You're not imagining it, this IS weird, and in my opinion, unhealthy. It
means that you have to "share" her with this unwholesome setup. If I
were you I would walk away right now, and date a girl you don't have to
share with what seems to be a cult in all but name.
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