Ninjamuffinduck says:
we didn't break up because of arguements or issues between us, it was more issues at the situation.
We are both at uni and the distance got to him as well as him feeling
that he didn't know where his life was going and he just didn't want
this right now.
The actual relationship was good.
However he said he doesn't want to lose me cos I'm an amazing person and wants to stay friends.
Personally I think it'll be tough being friends but if we could get back
together I would try because I think if the situation was right, where
we could properly be together then I think the relationship would really
work.
We're gonna talk about it soon but I just would like a bit of advice of what to do
Although I don't want to lose him romantically, I don't want to fully lose him out of my life either.
You have made the crucial point yourself - it would be tough being
friends because you would always be wanting more. I don't know if this
helps but I met my wife whilst on vacation at uni. When I had to go back
I was inclined to end it, but she was DETERMINED to make it work -
she'd come to see me every fortnight at enormous expense. We've now been
married 28 years.
I am inclined to suggest you fight for this love until you are convinced
he doesn't love you back. If you end up friend-zoned, you will simply
be frustrated and unable to move on. Fight for him or leave him
completely behind, painful though that will be.
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