Milka says:
He is very decent, way too decent. He doesn’t want to hurt me and loves
me a lot. He is into meditation, yoga etc. a very simple, respecting
silent guy. I actually feel lucky to have a such a guy with me. He is
also in a really high possision it makes for a easier to spend on things
which we both like and have fun.
Only thing: He is pretty less romantic, doesn’t make an effort to
understand my desires. He fogets my birthday and cries and says sorry…
He is just this way. He goes on business trips and says he won’t be
using his mobile because of roaming and no time for a call or skype.
Once he was on a long trip for a month and called me just twice and had
no proper contact details since he was on company trips.
I felt so terrible. Missed me to the extent of I thought I never want to
meet him again. He hates texting, doesn’t care about his looks. Etc
etc.
We are more like THE BEST FRIENDS than a couple. As friends we have lots
and lots of fun, laugh a lot, play together. But when it comes to the
emotional part of relationship. I feel disappointed… I am more
emotionally bound with him than he is with me. He is more a practical
guy. He loves me without any expectations on me. Even that hurts me
sometimes. Is it wrong that I expect him to give me a hug me sometime?
Let's get real here - this guy disappoints you and is not fulfilling
your needs - something's got to give! You will only be unhappy if this
continues. You need to tell him what you need, and if he can't deliver,
you need to move on. I know you don't want to hurt the guy, but being
stuck with the wrong one is far more painful in the wrong one.
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