Michael says:
So I have been seeing this girl for about two months and honestly, she
is the best girlfriend I have ever had. She is so sweet and so caring I
just love her to death. With that being said she doesn't have that much
self esteem and doesn't think highly of herself. I try my hardest
everyday to remind her she is amazing, but I don't really think she
realizes how much I care. So, the Winter Formal dance at our school is
coming up and I just want her to feel special. I want to make it the
best night she has ever had in her lifetime. Hopefully you guys could
give me some tips on how to make this happen because she really does
deserve to feel like the most important girl in the world. She is the
most important girl in my world! How do I make her feel this way?
Thanks!
Short answer - you can't. As much as you want to, you can't make her
believe in herself - you can only show her how much you care. She needs
to seek help in building up her self-esteem, and because you are
involved with her, you can't provide it. She must want to be helped and
then seek the help herself. All you can do is be there for her and show
her your love. Good luck to both of you.
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